tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3530700550545534566.post6370655269543182176..comments2023-10-10T09:33:19.388+01:00Comments on It's a Date: Alone.Nathan Oliverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920952635953538408noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3530700550545534566.post-44565676754651372682012-05-27T23:46:14.085+01:002012-05-27T23:46:14.085+01:00its a good, but hard realization. ive been in that...its a good, but hard realization. ive been in that spot recently too...not because of a break up or lack of a full life, but just lack of close friends at the moment i guess..they are all just busy... its been good for me to rely more on God though...spending time getting to know him.. thanks for this...Julie Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08521526794953681593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3530700550545534566.post-62198851821987483852012-05-24T16:08:35.319+01:002012-05-24T16:08:35.319+01:00I'm not going to lie. It absolutely sucks at f...I'm not going to lie. It absolutely sucks at first. Last May, I graduated college; my mother had just passed away three months prior, and my boyfriend (now exboyfriend) had been disloyal. We broke up. I made a promise to myself to not date for an entire year. I was miserable the first few months, and after that, I was empowered. I learned the difference between being lonely and being alone. I started to do things that I never would've done when I was with him. I traveled. I laughed again. I went downtown with friends. <br /><br />Now, a year later, I am more thankful than ever for that promise I made with myself. I have a strong relationship with God, I'm getting ready to leave for a graduate program on full scholarship, and I know who I am.<br /><br />You'll get there. One step at a time. I believe in you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15232066119259646817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3530700550545534566.post-25946026151960982492012-05-24T15:12:44.509+01:002012-05-24T15:12:44.509+01:00Being alone can be so difficult to get used too! I...Being alone can be so difficult to get used too! I'm sorry because I know exactly how you feel and it isn't so much fun. But as you said in the end of your post... being out of a relationship can be a good time to focus on other things. I don't really know what to say, and don't want to say the wrong thing (I am not so good with words!). I guess I just wanted to say that I'm sorry, and I know how you feel!! <3 My thoughts and prayers will be with you!!<br />MarieAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623118246906724359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3530700550545534566.post-13841063063652565792012-05-24T03:41:59.329+01:002012-05-24T03:41:59.329+01:00Oh, I am so sorry. Even when things are for the be...Oh, I am so sorry. Even when things are for the better, they still can be dreadful to go through. I will pray for you. <3rebekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10945038400095210698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3530700550545534566.post-62863199932159768102012-05-24T00:11:19.154+01:002012-05-24T00:11:19.154+01:00Embrace this time. It can be hard at first. Well...Embrace this time. It can be hard at first. Well, it can be hard throughout as well. But you will learn so much during this time and God will use the alone time for your benefit and His glory. <3Rebecca Roodehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00983357220871168498noreply@blogger.com